Acquaintanceship: Dissociation - Pre Dissociation
Good evening,
My dear friends, I was not able to write blogs for the past 2 weeks as I was on my official trip. Todays discussion will be exclusively based on the possessiveness and their effects. We know that when two atoms combine together they form a molecule. At the same time when these molecules are subjected to highest rotational and vibrational state, they tend to dissociate into atoms. A terrible Break- Up in relationship.
I often wonder, why when 2 people who are so close to each other, break up in very quick time. The answers for such questions are enlightened from spectroscopy. Normally, we find 2 kinds of relationship in acquaintanceship which leads to 2 kinds of Break ups i.e., anticipated break up and shocking break up.
Anticipated break ups are like molecular pre-dissociation, where as Shocking break ups are like dissociation. In order to understand this , let me narrate with a day to day instances where we normally find 2 kinds of acquaintances.
Case 1: Dissociating Acquaintances - Shocking Break Up's
1) Friendly-Freddy Relationship : Where these acquaintances behave themselves in such a way that, they belong to one family. If they are at their limits, then there is a probability of continuing the relationship for longtime. In case, if they have crossed their limits and posses their possessiveness then it always tends towards break up. These possessiveness are like the higher vibrational quantum states, where the probability of finding the wave-function are normally at the classical turning points of the potential diagram. This is what exactly that happens even in the relationship. When your possession/ Energy is low, then you are together at center, else you are found at corners. The cornered form in a very good relationship can be enlightened using potential energy diagram. In case, if the possession was maximum to the core, then there is an obvious sign of break up. The relationship which can never be bounded.
Similarly, when an atom is dissociated from molecule, it begins to accelerate quickly.
Case 2: Pre-dissociating Acquaintances - Anticipated Break Up's
2) Freddy- Greedy Relationship: We can say that, these acquaintances are matured acquaintances, they know that for a particular situation they are parasitic in nature. They tend to depend upon each other, Once their task gets over, they tend to split up on. In this case, they know that they are gonna move away soon after the task. They normally tend to distance themselves as the task gets over, This is as good as pre-dissociation in a molecule, where a molecule begins to dissociate much before it's dissociation energy.
Bottom Line: Acquaintanceship is like a molecule,where the break up is certain.
Moral: To have better Acquaintanceship when you find people of Case 1: I advice you to keep your possessions away.. If you find, people of Case 2, then obviously, you can never be hurt..
My dear friends, I was not able to write blogs for the past 2 weeks as I was on my official trip. Todays discussion will be exclusively based on the possessiveness and their effects. We know that when two atoms combine together they form a molecule. At the same time when these molecules are subjected to highest rotational and vibrational state, they tend to dissociate into atoms. A terrible Break- Up in relationship.
I often wonder, why when 2 people who are so close to each other, break up in very quick time. The answers for such questions are enlightened from spectroscopy. Normally, we find 2 kinds of relationship in acquaintanceship which leads to 2 kinds of Break ups i.e., anticipated break up and shocking break up.
Anticipated break ups are like molecular pre-dissociation, where as Shocking break ups are like dissociation. In order to understand this , let me narrate with a day to day instances where we normally find 2 kinds of acquaintances.
This pic explains how the electronic transitions occur and also, it speaks on how the probability varies with quantum numbers.
Case 1: Dissociating Acquaintances - Shocking Break Up's
1) Friendly-Freddy Relationship : Where these acquaintances behave themselves in such a way that, they belong to one family. If they are at their limits, then there is a probability of continuing the relationship for longtime. In case, if they have crossed their limits and posses their possessiveness then it always tends towards break up. These possessiveness are like the higher vibrational quantum states, where the probability of finding the wave-function are normally at the classical turning points of the potential diagram. This is what exactly that happens even in the relationship. When your possession/ Energy is low, then you are together at center, else you are found at corners. The cornered form in a very good relationship can be enlightened using potential energy diagram. In case, if the possession was maximum to the core, then there is an obvious sign of break up. The relationship which can never be bounded.
Similarly, when an atom is dissociated from molecule, it begins to accelerate quickly.
You are fired if you cross your limits ..
Mentally, you are never know when you dissociate;
Dissociation.
Case 2: Pre-dissociating Acquaintances - Anticipated Break Up's
2) Freddy- Greedy Relationship: We can say that, these acquaintances are matured acquaintances, they know that for a particular situation they are parasitic in nature. They tend to depend upon each other, Once their task gets over, they tend to split up on. In this case, they know that they are gonna move away soon after the task. They normally tend to distance themselves as the task gets over, This is as good as pre-dissociation in a molecule, where a molecule begins to dissociate much before it's dissociation energy.
"Soon after this meet, Let's Dissociate"..
Mentally, you are preset for dissociation there by indicating
Pre dissociation.
Bottom Line: Acquaintanceship is like a molecule,where the break up is certain.
Moral: To have better Acquaintanceship when you find people of Case 1: I advice you to keep your possessions away.. If you find, people of Case 2, then obviously, you can never be hurt..
