Friendship & Acquaintanceship : Rotational Constant & Centrifugal Distortion
Dear Friends,
I always wonder what happens when we are so attached to a person, we behave so rigid, If the binding between the two is more, then we see that there is some separation that happens. I always find it difficult to digest, when 2 friends set up some limitations after some time.. I do question myself sometimes weather keeping up the distance is good/bad? I finally got the answer, when the theory of diatomic molecule as a rigid rotor which claims that faster the rotation of the molecule, there is an increase in bond length, thereby resulting in Centrifugal Distortion.
As we know that molecular binding is a central force phenomena, the bonding deals with centripetal force where as the perturbations deals with centrifugal force..
To understand this, let me narrate with 2 instances which everyone has gone through..
Instance 2:
College Friends
Imagine that you and your college friends are so close to one another that you people used to posses as if your friendship holds till your last breathe.. That's what we expect too.. As life is comical, we see that people give up their friendship soon after they leave their workplace, in such cases we see that the friend whom we judged is no longer the friend, he is an acquaintance. We normally see, acquaintances move apart from us soon after his/her task.. In this case, we expect two kinds of reaction.
Reaction 2:
Go back to person and try to be more friendly: If you react in this way, then it means that you are exhibiting your possession, That possessiveness is because of the attractive nature of the person, Normally we imagine that we are going towards them, but in reality it is the other way round, The more you go closer, they resist, They need Freedom. So better Not to try this on your acquaintances.. As they don't value you any more, hence your nature which was rigid is now no longer rigid
In simpler words,
Bondage between true friends are rigid, No one can break it/ it remains unperturbed, ground energy state, it is made with full of joy love and fun.
It is nothing but our Childhood friendships are like Molecular Bonding at Zero Point Energy Levels.
As They know what you are, you may need not over react in front of them.
A College level friendships are flexible/they get perturbed easily, a small perturbation leads to several misunderstandings.
In other words, the quantum numbers are high, as compared to school days, thereby the rotational energy is also high, As the energy is high, it results in increase in bond length, thereby resulting in distortion in bond length . The increase is always positive quantity, the central force experienced here is Centrifugal, Hence its known as Centrifugal Distortion.
Bottom Line:
A Relationship thats build with Possessiveness/with sweet lies is nothing but acquaintanceship which is always a limited relationship, as you try to increase the bondage, then the relationship is destroyed.
I always wonder what happens when we are so attached to a person, we behave so rigid, If the binding between the two is more, then we see that there is some separation that happens. I always find it difficult to digest, when 2 friends set up some limitations after some time.. I do question myself sometimes weather keeping up the distance is good/bad? I finally got the answer, when the theory of diatomic molecule as a rigid rotor which claims that faster the rotation of the molecule, there is an increase in bond length, thereby resulting in Centrifugal Distortion.
As we know that molecular binding is a central force phenomena, the bonding deals with centripetal force where as the perturbations deals with centrifugal force..
This diagram speaks on Rotational Spectra of a Diatomic molecule..
In absence of centrifugal distortion, the spectra is constructed.
To understand this, let me narrate with 2 instances which everyone has gone through..
Instance 1:
School Friends
Imagine that you and your friend were so close to each other that you people used to posses as if your friendship holds till your last breathe.. That's what we expect too.. As life in this case is more on reality, its like you people know each other better than any one, we see that people do not give up their friendship in any instances, They are true friends.. Your Bondage is so rigid that none can break it..
We enjoy very less with school friends when we are schooling.. In terms of enjoyment its ( -ve) negative sign indicating attractive potential.
College Friends
Imagine that you and your college friends are so close to one another that you people used to posses as if your friendship holds till your last breathe.. That's what we expect too.. As life is comical, we see that people give up their friendship soon after they leave their workplace, in such cases we see that the friend whom we judged is no longer the friend, he is an acquaintance. We normally see, acquaintances move apart from us soon after his/her task.. In this case, we expect two kinds of reaction.
We enjoy more with college friends when we are graduating.. In terms of enjoyment its ( +ve) positive sign indicating repulsive potential.
Reaction 1:
Accept the fact and Stay calm: If you react it in this manner, there is a no loss- no gain relationship, still you can be in contact with that person. This is what acquaintances need too.. Accept it, this acceptance can normally put you on better place. Still your relationship stays on, and your nature remains the same.
Go back to person and try to be more friendly: If you react in this way, then it means that you are exhibiting your possession, That possessiveness is because of the attractive nature of the person, Normally we imagine that we are going towards them, but in reality it is the other way round, The more you go closer, they resist, They need Freedom. So better Not to try this on your acquaintances.. As they don't value you any more, hence your nature which was rigid is now no longer rigid
In simpler words,
Bondage between true friends are rigid, No one can break it/ it remains unperturbed, ground energy state, it is made with full of joy love and fun.
It is nothing but our Childhood friendships are like Molecular Bonding at Zero Point Energy Levels.
As They know what you are, you may need not over react in front of them.
A College level friendships are flexible/they get perturbed easily, a small perturbation leads to several misunderstandings.
In other words, the quantum numbers are high, as compared to school days, thereby the rotational energy is also high, As the energy is high, it results in increase in bond length, thereby resulting in distortion in bond length . The increase is always positive quantity, the central force experienced here is Centrifugal, Hence its known as Centrifugal Distortion.
Bottom Line:
A Relationship thats build with Possessiveness/with sweet lies is nothing but acquaintanceship which is always a limited relationship, as you try to increase the bondage, then the relationship is destroyed.
A Relationship thats build with Calmness/Innocent Truth is nothing but friendship which is always unlimited relationship, what ever you try to do, the relationship remains unperturbed.
